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Burned the turkey? Failed Thanksgiving? Grocery store open? Endeavor forward.

Let me guess - you probably spent a ton of money on Thanksgiving items, food, decorations, and so forth.  You may have even dropped a pretty coin to travel.

Did the turkey burn?  Did it dry out?  

Failed Thanksgiving?

Keep it simple and make a new tradition.  Do something wild.  A few ideas -

1)  Thanksgiving Lasagna - you can take this in a few different ways.  You could go traditional (e.g., Italian) or a modern twist (e.g., Thanksgiving foods baked as a lasagna).

2)  McDonald's - no joke.  Just go get some burgers.  I'm usually a healthy dude, but when crisis hits, McDonald's is outstanding.  Those golden arches bring joy.  Where is the nearest McDonald's?  May as well have it handy.

3)  Peanut butter and jelly - you may think this is a joke, but it's not.  There's little more comforting to me than a simple peanut butter and jelly sandwich.  How to make it?  Make it the way you want to make it - as comforting as you desire it to be.

The point is that you should be free to improvise.  Just do it already.

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